So, I am a military spouse. This means that I have and will likely continue to move every 2 to 4 years. Actually this will be my 3rd move in the last 4 years, and we’ll do it again in another 2 years (and hopefully not less), and then likely in another 2 years.
There are nice things involved in moving. Seeing new places, I have after all spent the last almost 4 years in Japan because of the military. Meeting new people, which I think used to be more exciting when I was younger. My husband is in a small community, and ultimately the military is fairly small, so there’s always the joy of being near old friends again. We’ll be near a few good friends from tours past in a few months. Getting rid of junk, with each move I trim the old stuff both before and after the move. It’s hard to be hoarder and a military spouse.
And, there are some nice things about moving with the military. They do the packing and moving. There are resources in place for moves. We may be without stuff for several months, but will have loaner furniture in both places until our stuff gets to us. If we have a question, likely we know friends or others on the base we’re leaving or going to who have answers.
On the other hand… I have spent and will spend a lot of time in the coming months messing with the move. There are lots of logistics. Hotel reservations to make, kennels to book, as we’re driving part of the move I need to arrange a rental car, and so on. We need to retrieve the car we own in the states from storage, and see about buying a new one. I have already started the process of going through stuff, giving away, trashing and selling things. I have to figure out what we send in our smaller later shipment. And then there’s how to pack everything we may need for 60+ days into 5-6 suitcases. Making decisions on what we don’t need for that few month, what we do need. My husband does some of these logistics, especially some of the more official ones that are easier for him to do, but he’s got a job and often is too busy for smaller things, so…
Yeah, I will spent a lot of time in the coming months on moving stuff. Like today, we’re buying cheap (possibly used) dishes to use after our stuff leaves, bringing the needed paperwork to reserve the base hotel before we fly out, and I get to continue to hunt down answers to how to best retrieve that car from storage. Although first I should rescue the dog water from the soaked toddler, or perhaps that should be the other way around.
So, if I blog a bit less, know that between that and chasing a toddler and seeing the last of Japan… I’m busy moving on to the next place.