Was one of those days. They always seem to happen right before Daddy is back home. Not everything went wrong but enough to just want the day done by dinner and break out a beer after bedtime.
The kids tag teamed who was up from about 1am on, and baby was wide awake at about 4:30am. Already a great start. At least getting ready was not as much of a fight as it was picture day at C’s preschool, so we had already picked out her dress and tights for the day. And she held still for a ponytail and bow, while R chilled happy in his swing chair. Then, R was just a fussy clingy thing all morning. When he wasn’t wanting to eat or be soothed, he wanted to sleep on me. If I had plans to do anything while C was at school, they did not get done. And the few things like packing a picnic lunch, I had to do, were done with a screaming baby in the background. Put on my running shoes, to find they had been muddy and were now tracking dirt ALL over the house while I packed and got ready for school pick up.
(C trying to calm a fussy growing hungry R while I ran.)
We did a picnic lunch, which was chilly and without a picnic table, but C still loved it. And it saved me time as we just rolled from school pick up there. Then, I went running. Week 7 day 2 of C25K training. I didn’t do bad keeping the run/walk interval I wanted. Although, I swallowed a bug, during the difficult part at the end, while C wanted to chat about when we were getting to the cool down for her to get out and run along. But, run complete, and the sun was out, and it was a beautiful pacific northwest day.
Then, C misbehaved around the packing lot, although keeping her hand on the car while she went ahead and around the back of the car, and she got upset that I got mad. Baby at this point, R was hungry and crying, I’m struggling to unload the jogging stroller, take off one wheel to get it to fit in the back of our little car, and lift it to get it stored away. We got to base and parked at a play ground, after of course missing a turn and having to backtrack, and baby was back asleep, although I know still hungry.
C played. I fed baby. It was warm enough to be outside and do that without too much bundling. We got to commissary (grocery store for those not military). Again, warm enough to easily put now fed, changed and happy baby in baby carrier outside the car. There was a potty trip, but we had not gotten far from the bathrooms. C might have run too far ahead most of the time in the store. And she luckily did not get run over by other carts. I like the commissary as the aisles are all extra wide, but we had gone to the bigger one and it’s much busier than the one we usually go to. We got food, found a few good finds, have stuff for yummy food next week, and checked out. As the bagger helped us take out the groceries (another reason to like the commissary) it was no joke sleeting. Which woke up now sleeping baby. He’s crying and upset to be awake. C is luckily in the car without a fight. And someone else loaded the groceries while I put R in the car seat and re bundled him, then strapped in C. And then we of course ran into traffic going home and it took a while to get there. Then had to unload groceries, put away, clean off dirt from floor before C tracked it everywhere.
Luckily, R finally took his nice long nap. I got a bath, which was nice as I was sweaty. But, sleeping baby meant instead of sitting and sipping some afternoon coffee, I had to do ALL the THINGS on tired legs while I had two hands to do them. I did dishes, took out trash, did some laundry, fixed a frozen pizza for dinner, and likely more, I forget all. Then, R woke up just as we were sitting down to eat. But feed him and he was happy again. At this point C is in her usual run around with crazy tired energy part of the day. We have told her running is fine, being loud and dragging things while running is not. And she was just running. She also bopped R on the head twice. And I warned her to be nice and not hit anyone else. Then, we’re feeding dog and she’s dragging the dog away from the dog food by her tail. Dog is a lab, and can’t really feel much in her tail anyway, and C can’t really move the 55lbs dog much. Still, third strike and she got bedtime books (something she loves) taken away. (I’ve tried time out and generally it does nothing but rile her up further.) Enter sad upset preschooler who eventually at least got the point that her actions had gotten a punishment and it was not getting given back.
In the end, bedtime was pretty easy for C even without books. She was tired. And eventually got R settled as well. (Although baby and sleeping is needs its own post.)
(Happy baby by the end of the day with a nice long nap done.)
Hopefully, today is better. I’m writing this while being online for my paid work. Then, we will hopefully not have a fight over picking up toys to get the floors cleaned later. We’re doing story time at the local library and returning library books. That at least is leverage to get C to behave this morning. Then, if it’s not raining, we can do the park near the library and run off some energy. And husband gets back later tonight and it will be a few weeks before I have to solo parent again.